One of the biggest worries for first-time mums, once the “I’m pregnant!” shock settles, is: where do I start with the layette?
At first it feels like there’s plenty of time — nine (long) months, after all. But the first trimester is often taken up by deep changes in your body (and mind and heart), sometimes with strong nausea. And in the third trimester tiredness and birth nerves kick in. So my advice: leave as little as possible for the end.
In short
- The best time to prepare the layette is the second trimester: more energy, and the baby feels more “real”.
- First decide your budget, whether to buy everything or in stages, and where to shop.
- Organise your list by category and buy only a few newborn-size pieces: babies grow fast.
- In a warm climate, choose light cotton and lots of easy changes.
When should I start?
The second trimester is ideal: you have more energy and the idea of a baby feels real. It’s the perfect time to tackle the layette calmly.
Before the list: three decisions
- Budget: how much can I spend? It depends a lot on your plans for the nursery — some mums want to change everything, from wall colours to curtains and lamps. If that’s you, start the “works” early.
- Everything at once or in stages? I chose to prepare only the first 6 months — I left out everything for starting solids, and when my daughter turned 6 months I did a mini-layette.
- Where to buy? Locally, or will you travel? One shop or several? If you can, South Africa has many more options at friendlier prices. If not, you’ll find most things locally — plus unique handmade pieces like those in our shop.
The layette checklist by category
The trick is to split it into categories and fill each one: nursery, hygiene, feeding, clothing, outings and extras.
Nursery
- Cot with a firm mattress and fitted sheets (2–3 sets);
- Mosquito net for the cot — essential in Mozambique;
- Chest of drawers or unit with a changing mat;
- Light blankets (3–4) and a warmer one for cooler nights;
- A night light for night feeds.
Hygiene
- Newborn nappies (a few) and size 1 (more);
- Baby wipes and cotton wool;
- Nappy cream;
- Baby bath and 2 hooded towels;
- Gentle liquid soap, thermometer, nail clippers and soft brush;
- Nasal aspirator.
Feeding
- If you plan to breastfeed: nursing pillow, nursing bras and breast pads;
- Bibs and plenty of muslin cloths;
- Bottles and a steriliser if needed.
Clothing
| Item | Newborn | 0–3 months | 3–6 months |
|---|---|---|---|
| Bodysuits (short and long sleeve) | 4–6 | 6–8 | 6–8 |
| Sleepsuits / babygrows | 4–6 | 6 | 4–6 |
| Trousers or leggings | 2–3 | 4 | 4 |
| Cardigans | 1–2 | 2–3 | 2 |
| Socks and booties | 4 pairs | 6 pairs | 6 pairs |
| Hats | 2 | 2 | 1 |
Babies grow incredibly fast, so don’t overdo newborn size. See our baby clothes size guide to choose by weight and height, not just age.
Outings
- Infant car seat — needed from the day you leave hospital if you go by car;
- Pram or stroller;
- Baby carrier or a capulana to carry baby close;
- Changing bag with a portable mat.
Extras
- A going-home outfit (and something special, like a newborn hat and booties set);
- A baby monitor if your home is large;
- Soft, safe toys such as a handmade amigurumi.
Tips that would have saved me time (and money)
- Wash everything before use with a gentle detergent.
- Keep labels and receipts for bigger items so you can exchange them.
- Ask friends and family to gift bigger sizes — everyone gives newborn!
- Don’t forget your hospital bag: pack it around 34–36 weeks.
Download the free Pregnancy Checklist — your baby’s essential layette list, by size, to print and tick off. Get the checklist
When did you actually start your layette? Share in the comments!
